Hey Soo, I said: "It sounds like you sacrificed much of yourself and your life for your kids and family." I went on to say I did the same because that's what my church required of me. I didn't assume you did it for the same reason, just that we seemed to have much of the same experiences. I think offers of help or advice are best when someone directly asks for them which I did not. Also, you didn't offer belief in god as one option, but as THE ONLY option, which is the main problem I have with your comment ("I hope that in your journey to find peace you will consider the only one that can give you what you are seeking."). I believe you have the best of intentions, but that doesn't change the actual words you wrote. However, I genuinely appreciate that you're engaging with me. Thank you!