I think that's a good point I mostly agree with. I understand this is a painful topic. I have been cheated on as well, so I know what that feels like, too. However, I didn't force this article on anyone, and if someone comes here and makes it about something that the article is not about, I'll redirect the conversation. There are plenty of articles catering to people being cheated on. This article is about something else and if people don't want to engage with the subject matter, they should move on. I also think it's true that we all see see life through the unique lens of our own experience. However, that should not preclude us from considering other, more uncomfortable ,viewpoints. And if we are in a difficult emotional place where we don't have the capacity to consider ideas beyond our pain (yet), that's fine, but not the responsibility of the person discussing said ideas.