I’m a Pick-Me Girl
4 min readJan 26, 2023
I’ve watched way too many seasons of the Bachelor because I could truly, madly, deeply understand all those wounded women dressed up like Disney princesses and pageant beauties and prom queens, hoping they’d be chosen over all the others.
I’ve been a pick-me girl most of my life. My teenage daughters have explained that this girl seeks male validation and attention by changing her personality and preferences. For myself, I’d…