Thanks for explaining your perspective, D, I appreciate it. I don’t believe in God or the bible so I don’t feel the need or requirement to forgive. I think that often leads to the person who was wronged being weighed down by guilt on top of the pain, because they’re not ready to forgive. I focus more on acceptance. What happened happened, I can’t change it. That’s already hard enough for me as I’m still wishing things had been different. I’m glad you have found some peace, and thank you again for sharing.